tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post7371714846527523632..comments2023-12-26T22:45:52.865-05:00Comments on Not Afraid to Use It: The Fork In the RoadUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-4837766590075009312008-05-07T01:24:00.000-04:002008-05-07T01:24:00.000-04:00Yeah, I'm with you on this one. Right now I'd be h...Yeah, I'm with you on this one. Right now I'd be happy to be living from paycheck to paycheck rather than off savings. But, the cool thing is that we CAN decide that it's going to be a good day even if everything is stacked against it. <BR/><BR/>Hey, do you know the Cake version of "I Will Survive"? Let me know and if not I'll send it to you next time I have some bandwidth.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-65359161820220956192008-05-06T10:19:00.000-04:002008-05-06T10:19:00.000-04:00Yeah, girl. I know what you mean. It's stressful t...Yeah, girl. I know what you mean. It's stressful to be the one who decides their schedule, menu, LIVES! But? When they tell you they love you? It's worth it.Coal Miner's Granddaughterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14320077738770745217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-74687204410888189252008-05-05T22:28:00.000-04:002008-05-05T22:28:00.000-04:00I feel like cutting and pasting this blog post ont...I feel like cutting and pasting this blog post onto my own and just writing the word "Ditto." <BR/><BR/>Being a parent is the most terrifying thing I have ever attempted...that includes driving the Central Expressway in Dallas while applying mascara!<BR/><BR/>Sometimes I look at my daughter and I just want to cry for her sweet innocent heart and damage this world will ultimately do to it. Damn...that's depressing.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02898403705473768390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-67251399982359286132008-05-05T21:52:00.000-04:002008-05-05T21:52:00.000-04:00Your kids are loved and happy (and very well-behav...Your kids are loved and happy (and very well-behaved!), but I know how you feel. We have had some very rough times, and we never said a word about how hard it had been until we realized our daughter thought we were rich and were going to hand her the world on a silver platter. She was a teenager by then. So we started cluing them in a bit. <BR/><BR/>Our son? He is a whiz at managing his money. He still buys himself some fun stuff like car audio equipment, but he has paid for his own car, insurance, all kinds of things. <BR/><BR/>Kids don't need to know until it becomes an important part of explaining why they won't get a Jag for a graduation present like Muffy. For now, you are doing a GREAT job.<BR/><BR/>Peace (and hugs) - DRiverPoethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01846730934649303857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-5237425599117330182008-05-05T20:26:00.000-04:002008-05-05T20:26:00.000-04:00When I see picture or videos that you post of Litt...When I see picture or videos that you post of LittleBird, what I see is a vibrant, loved child in front of the camera held by an adoring, nurturing mom who busts her hump creating a rich, fulfilling life for them. Don't knock yourself, hon - you are doing great!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-77989701671981746542008-05-05T12:06:00.000-04:002008-05-05T12:06:00.000-04:00@mermaid: Frosting sounds really good right now. ...@mermaid: Frosting sounds really good right now. But forget the fork, I think I'd just use my fingers. :)<BR/><BR/>BTW--Do you realize that we are nearly neighbors?<BR/><BR/>@Jay: Thanks for saying so. I know so much of life is like this, that we do not always see what goes on behind the scenes. In this case I am not about disclosure. :)<BR/><BR/>@Two Fisted Editor: I remember my parents fretting about money when I was little, and how scared I always felt. Looking back, we were never lacking and always had plenty (if not too much) of everything. I really want to spare my kids that feeling. I want my kids to know that money should not be important, just as you said.<BR/><BR/>@Gypsy: Thanks for the hugs, woman. I think I need to bolt the hard hat to my head for a while.<BR/><BR/>@Buddha_Girl: Thanks for the kind words. That's all I want, for my kids to be happy and well-adjusted.Not Afraid To Use Ithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00975449286082015933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-38454735651859515442008-05-05T11:24:00.000-04:002008-05-05T11:24:00.000-04:00My family was in dire straits when I was growing u...My family was in dire straits when I was growing up, but I had no idea until I was able to drive. <BR/><BR/>Even though I wore hand-me-downs, ate leftovers and sub-prime cuts of meat, I had a great childhood. I can't imagine the stress my parents felt with four kids and no money.<BR/><BR/>Your kids are some of the happiest I've ever seen because you and your husband are amazing parents and role models for happiness.Mouthy Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13390913450937641605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-73159010232930601712008-05-05T11:20:00.000-04:002008-05-05T11:20:00.000-04:00Dig in? :) And wear your hard hat. {hugs}Dig in? :) And wear your hard hat. {hugs}Gypsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14327359141716141220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-15373376752198475232008-05-05T07:35:00.000-04:002008-05-05T07:35:00.000-04:00What you are creating for your kids is what my par...What you are creating for your kids is what my parents created for me. One of my folks was always at home to take care of me and my siblings, we always had enough to eat, and when we didn't get the things we wanted, it was because they were things we didn't need. I attribute my (fairly) upright-citizen status to the fact that without ever talking about money, it was clear in our house that money wasn't important. Our priorities were God and each other, and that was all that mattered.twofistededitorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09937377610673760088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-57897041714239160272008-05-05T06:31:00.000-04:002008-05-05T06:31:00.000-04:00Sweetie, the life you created for them IS the life...Sweetie, the life you created for them IS the life they actually have. You're doing just fine. ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-62856933790193934792008-05-05T01:22:00.000-04:002008-05-05T01:22:00.000-04:00We all love our kids and keep knocking our heads a...We all love our kids and keep knocking our heads against the wall to make a good place for them in this world--even though we're bleeding from the process.<BR/><BR/>Pick up that fork and sink it into something delicious--by the look of your pics, I'd say you already did. I'd choose cake with lots of frosting right now, myself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com