tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post5311092952892035009..comments2023-12-26T22:45:52.865-05:00Comments on Not Afraid to Use It: WWYD?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-10630268655622332312008-03-16T09:29:00.000-04:002008-03-16T09:29:00.000-04:00I'm on the fence between "that was a bit greedy" a...I'm on the fence between "that was a bit greedy" and "they thought it was a gift, and it's rude to offer a gift and then take it back later because somebody else offered them the same gift." <BR/><BR/>So, I guess I'm no help, huh?Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03808321718135225905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-76184957237044537342008-03-09T05:49:00.000-04:002008-03-09T05:49:00.000-04:00hmm yeah everyone's comments seem valid but not kn...hmm yeah everyone's comments seem valid but not knowing your friend I dont know if she's dead shy and didnt want to offend in not taking food you bought her for some reason (cultural? stupid?) or if she's stingy and rude. I go for the latter, as the first would be too shy to walk into someone's house without knocking or asking. mental.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-68076290217619174232008-03-08T20:05:00.000-05:002008-03-08T20:05:00.000-05:00um...yeah, that's pretty fucked up if you ask me. ...um...yeah, that's pretty fucked up if you ask me. Especially after eating a steak dinner! Geez<BR/><BR/>And, um...walking back in the house? I take it this was down here? Um, Wow...dude, I have no words!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-50360956403384491582008-03-07T10:27:00.000-05:002008-03-07T10:27:00.000-05:00I think your friend is just really comfortable wit...I think your friend is just really comfortable with you and thought of the take-home meal as a gift. She might have felt that, in leaving it there, she was not showing proper gratitude for the purchase. If you were uncomfortable with that, you should just say something casual like, "Oh, don't worry about it, I just thought you were full and didn't need it. I had a great time. We will have to do this again sometime." Every relationship is cross-cultural, whether it feels that way or not, and it is better to assume the best motives and just deal with the actions in a way that doesn't leave you feeling compromised or put-upon. The don't offer to buy take out for the husband next time. And if she doesn't reciprocate by buying your next meal, tell her the next time she invites you that eating out isn't in your budget. I think she's just kind of thick, not particularly bad and she will get the hint.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-81543462544763611682008-03-06T12:50:00.000-05:002008-03-06T12:50:00.000-05:00Ummm..there's no way in hell I would take kindly t...Ummm..there's no way in hell I would take kindly to that behavior. Like you said, he got fed. That meal was a courtesy so that he wouldn't go hungry after doing a nice thing. That nice thing would have been wiped out, in my book, after they came in and raided your fridge WITHOUT YOUR KNOWLEDGE! I can't believe she didn't even pop back in and say, "Hey, you know that food? Were we supposed to take it or...?" At least you could have made the decision. <BR/><BR/>I think it would be a LOOOOOOONG time before I invited them again. <BR/><BR/>Peace - DRiverPoethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01846730934649303857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-35621138291718250572008-03-06T11:39:00.000-05:002008-03-06T11:39:00.000-05:00Actually it's really uncool and janky even. It mig...Actually it's really uncool and janky even. <BR/><BR/>It might actually be a bit before I asked them back over again, but I'm like that. :)Mrs. Boomshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07327877419678061633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-9592308124566783022008-03-06T10:44:00.000-05:002008-03-06T10:44:00.000-05:00It's a little cheeky, isn't it? Some people are st...It's a little cheeky, isn't it? Some people are strange about things like that and it sounds like your friend may be one of them. <BR/><BR/>Hey, by the way, I finally remembered that Fuel song you sent - great fucking song. Thanks for that! I don't know why I've never gotten in to them.A Free Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01038930031019179647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-17609487324789095622008-03-06T08:11:00.000-05:002008-03-06T08:11:00.000-05:00wait... they just waltzed back into your house lik...wait... they just waltzed back into your house like they owned it??? just how good a friend is this?? i'd be irked about the food but LIVID about the coming back in and helping themselves without even telling you. and i'd definitely be pissed enough to say something about that part.Gerbilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05483627399876857508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-1183649650967590262008-03-05T23:31:00.000-05:002008-03-05T23:31:00.000-05:00Ooh, how I hate blogger.com sometimes (or maybe it...Ooh, how I hate blogger.com sometimes (or maybe it's the person at the keyboard...). The above post from bill was actually me! Yes, now I'm actually starting to talk in the 3rd person. I think I need help.Shelley Jaffehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05722741021304883646noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-24789365016808541092008-03-05T23:29:00.000-05:002008-03-05T23:29:00.000-05:00Holey crapoley, Jebus!! I am pre-ty particular ab...Holey crapoley, Jebus!! I am pre-ty particular about whom I let rummage around in my fridge. Up here in Politeness World, you barely even poke in your relative's fridge without getting the nod. You asked for opinions, hon - this is just weird, and a little on the rude side.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07844992307138451142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-38956888144811616002008-03-05T22:51:00.000-05:002008-03-05T22:51:00.000-05:00Hmmm…this is a conundrum. If the person were a ve...Hmmm…this is a conundrum. If the person were a very good friend of mine, I would not care one way or the other. But with that said, I can probably count the number of friends that are that close to me on one finger.<BR/><BR/>I would not think of walking back into someone’s house (even that one friend) and taking something out of their frig. That amounts to stealing in my book. Get the key back, or change the locks.<BR/><BR/>-Phighlander1463https://www.blogger.com/profile/15433780168552086707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-49543185951538426572008-03-05T22:20:00.000-05:002008-03-05T22:20:00.000-05:00First thought is that that is pretty shady. Feedin...First thought is that that is pretty shady. <BR/><BR/>Feeding someone is one thing, having them raid the fridge for tomorrow's meal is something else.<BR/><BR/>What would get me the most is that they walked back into your house to get it and didn't even say anything.jaynahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14215255040847440452noreply@blogger.com