tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post305464155814257635..comments2023-12-26T22:45:52.865-05:00Comments on Not Afraid to Use It: Social MathematicsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-54432298097638903962008-11-24T12:33:00.000-05:002008-11-24T12:33:00.000-05:00Look, I'll be the first to admit that there's much...Look, I'll be the first to admit that there's much that I don't know or understand about women... Ut, if a woman told me she was preggers after TWO WEEKS, I'd tell her that she's flippin' crazy, and demand a pat test the minute the baby was born.Irrational Dadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04701066159275266042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-2888462478846516852008-11-24T12:12:00.000-05:002008-11-24T12:12:00.000-05:00This math adds up to paternity test to me.This math adds up to paternity test to me.Gypsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14327359141716141220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-29586470045606363092008-11-23T23:05:00.000-05:002008-11-23T23:05:00.000-05:00@Patois: You are right. And this post is the perf...@Patois: You are right. And this post is the perfect example of that.<BR/><BR/>@RiverPoet: Ah...yet one more thing we have in common.<BR/><BR/>@Lindsay: Hey! Now they know! You'll get the scoop tomorrow.<BR/><BR/>@Toasty: Glad to clarify! He introduced her has his girlfriend, or someone new he is seeing. But he didn't tell them that she was already pregnant with his baby. I think he wanted to ease into it.<BR/><BR/>@Buddha_Girl: And THAT is why you will be having that same talk with both of my kids.Not Afraid to Use Ithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11622378209801018927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-47882257256691667882008-11-23T17:40:00.000-05:002008-11-23T17:40:00.000-05:00Dear God.Holy crow.I had a conversation with a 17 ...Dear God.<BR/><BR/>Holy crow.<BR/><BR/>I had a conversation with a 17 year old yesterday - in front of his grandmother. It went something like this:<BR/><BR/>"You. Listen to me. Whenever you have sex, you WILL use a condom." <BR/><BR/>"I do." <BR/><BR/>"Yeah. Just LISTEN. You will use a condom every time and will NOT believe any girl who tells you that she's on birth control. The least of your problems would be a baby."<BR/><BR/>I thought grandma would fall over dead from laughing. The kid? He wa MORTIFIED. I followed up with, "You never thought you'd be having this conversation with me when you had me 7 years ago in the 6th grade, did you"Mouthy Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13390913450937641605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-74445395425440350402008-11-22T15:30:00.000-05:002008-11-22T15:30:00.000-05:00LOL, River Poet! NATUI, am I missing something? ...LOL, River Poet! NATUI, am I missing something? I don't get the part about him not telling his mom and sister.Toastyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17033670658097544421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-37847340757242370692008-11-22T15:18:00.000-05:002008-11-22T15:18:00.000-05:00Why am I not surprised he hadn't told them she's k...Why am I not surprised he hadn't told them she's knocked? Oh, maybe because they were SO HAPPY? Hmm..Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08897845809922713938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-62008573893139473662008-11-21T19:45:00.000-05:002008-11-21T19:45:00.000-05:00Oh wow, so you've met my little sister? (j/k)All I...Oh wow, so you've met my little sister? (j/k)<BR/><BR/>All I can say, again, is WOW. <BR/><BR/>Peace - DRiverPoethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01846730934649303857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-12445061491533113442008-11-21T10:11:00.000-05:002008-11-21T10:11:00.000-05:00Just because there is birth control out there does...Just because there is birth control out there doesn't mean anyone will use it.Patois42https://www.blogger.com/profile/07764936858778730692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-72417619889006814152008-11-21T09:27:00.000-05:002008-11-21T09:27:00.000-05:00@AFM: You are right, it does. But as I pointed o...@AFM: You are right, it does. But as I pointed out in my other linked post, even being on the pill in no way guarantees that it is effective. She should have been on the pill, and he should have had his hat on. Esp. on the first damned date.<BR/><BR/>I think I focused on the male bc side because in my mind it is a <I>given</I> that she should have been on the pill. I guess that is just a factor of my growing up female in the US. Too many experiences of seeing a girl get preggers and all the blame is on the girl. In this case, I think the blame is DEF on her, but it was equally his responsibility to use a condom.<BR/><BR/>@Kat: Ah, the common sense factor. Sadly, I think she was out to lunch when god passed that particular skill out.<BR/><BR/>@Hollystar: There isn't another kid because she had miscarriage very early on. Various substances attributed to that.<BR/><BR/>@SSG: Yup, and double yup.<BR/><BR/>@Blue Momma: Yes, as the mom of a boy it scares the shit out of me, too. Except this "boy" is 36. I don't know that that makes it better. Like I said, they are both equally responsible.Not Afraid to Use Ithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11622378209801018927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-81667521671709005432008-11-21T08:34:00.000-05:002008-11-21T08:34:00.000-05:00With the internet and HDTV and texting all sorts o...With the internet and HDTV and texting all sorts of shit at all times of the day, I didn't think kids had sex anymore . . .Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-75919866058224747732008-11-21T07:34:00.000-05:002008-11-21T07:34:00.000-05:00scary as the mom of a boy, huh?We somehow have to ...scary as the mom of a boy, huh?<BR/><BR/>We somehow have to teach them to keep it in their pants - or wrap it up!!!<BR/><BR/>Of course being an old mom the only way I'll ever get to play with my own grandkids is if Punkin knocks up some chick when he is about 12.<BR/><BR/>So never mind what I said before....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-52937048180809524292008-11-21T05:42:00.000-05:002008-11-21T05:42:00.000-05:00i am so for male birth control. and for male and f...i am so for male birth control. and for male and female having equal maternity rights. just saying.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-86176141853361061162008-11-21T01:49:00.001-05:002008-11-21T01:49:00.001-05:00erm, i meant kat forgot to add in the total cost o...erm, i meant kat forgot to add in the total cost of raising the kid...holly*https://www.blogger.com/profile/00887019014297987182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-49256164259315038182008-11-21T01:49:00.000-05:002008-11-21T01:49:00.000-05:00kat forgot to add in the cost of raising the cost....kat forgot to add in the cost of raising the cost. i havent figured out the finally tally yet, but i can say expensive.<BR/><BR/>and afm has a point. i mean, knock me up once, shame on you. knock me up twice, shame on me. i know its not the same dude, so thats strictly for the lady in this senario. how about an IUD. not that expensive and pretty fool proof. <BR/><BR/>and who was watching her kid while she fucked all week end?!?!?! seriously! i'm lucky to get a 2am quicky before husband passes out...holly*https://www.blogger.com/profile/00887019014297987182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-33632841769549255402008-11-21T00:29:00.000-05:002008-11-21T00:29:00.000-05:00I think its a good argument for birth control of a...I think its a good argument for birth control of any kind, male or female. <BR/><BR/>Female condom...$2.50<BR/>Large box of Trojans...$18.00<BR/>Tubal ligation...$2000.00<BR/><BR/>Just some fucking common sense...Priceless.KJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08490843203917062841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3149345128982934434.post-60426603082400288182008-11-20T23:44:00.000-05:002008-11-20T23:44:00.000-05:00Not to be all sexist, but because this is her seco...Not to be all sexist, but because this is her second pregnancy in two years by two different men, doesn't that argue for female birth control? Or just some self control. Or just some fucking common sense.A Free Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01038930031019179647noreply@blogger.com